Wednesday, August 5, 2009

What is the big deal in it???

From two days i was thinking about why cant we change the mindset of people...for each and everything people have problem..may be women commission or some or human rights people or our dear neighbors..

for eg: miss kerala contest happened on 5th august i cant imagine what all noutanki all these human tights people made..."its against culture..they are forcing gals to show their flesh" and what all bla blaas...what is the need for all these. all these contests are happening from long time and every time 1 day b4 the contest they will come up with something...all these are just publicity stunts.

dont know why these people has to do so much, no one is forcing anyone to do anything. every one is having their own wish. from birth they have the rite to think and do what the want. and i dont think Indian gals will go against their culture. what ever they do they will be having the feeling of being an Indian in their mind.


Another thing i noticed in issues against live in relations- i was going thru an article which my friend has wrote about live-in relations. its true that its a western culture, but now a days Indians also started admitting these culture. b4 and all when guy and gal fell in love they wanna get married and have happy happy married life, but now the whole scenario has changed now a days gals and boys are more focused on their carrier than a married life, they dont wanna be in any commitments. i feel they are not wrong in what they are doing after all what is there in a marriage - lot of commitments and i dont think todays youth are ready take it.

Bust i can understand its difficult for our oldies to accept it but very soon they will also think the same way. very soon we can see our people accepting all these.


We have our own culture but cant stick to it till death....there should be some changes to every thing...we cant accept everything but lil bit we can...



i thought ill write so much on these lot of things to write will continue in another post...

4 comments:

Gulfu said...

This post shows your are still a kid you don't understand whats not straight.....

Th point of agitation against the show was not cause of its related to culture it was never there main concern(those who protested). The main thing was this not at all a competition, those who pay more money will get the title.. its been happening from the day this show started... due to effective PR ...impresario eppolum diverted the attention to culture and other stuffs to gain youth support.... this time it was clear..during the competition...to reach to the final 5 ..contestants has to answer the questions... before the questions where asked many of them had started answering.(media pointed out it ) now if u check today's news paper u will know hw much money u need to become miss kerala or even to participate....


This world might look straight and simple but its not...you will learn as u grow...

ANGEL said...

i have heard the comments made by certain people b4 the contest...they havnt mentioned any thing regading taing money from gals or ny thing...they wer against miss kerala contest coz they had a feeling that event people are miss using the gals...

after the event only this issue cam up and they strted...my blog was not ganist event managemnt or anythg...they taking money or anythg...if they r willg to pay let them pay...

my mian idea was to let every one know how all these human rights people ake os much of nautankis b4 the evnt

dinkan said...

beauty event needs the human rights protest.....human rights need a beauty event to show their presence...both these people need PR to make them notice...press needs all the above for them to survive...so its a cycle...all involved are going along in this cycle :-)

Allan said...

Read some here that . . . Beauty of India is absorbing everything which is offered and turning it the very Indianess we relish . . . Well I disagree on your notion on reasons behind live in relationships, I have seein older couples, having live in relationships. Does that mean a lack of effort or fear of commitment. I DO hope the notion of live in relationships is more prone to choice of lifestyle, any one serious enough to start a family, do have an option of tying the knot