Sunday, July 26, 2015

Past is never past....It haunts every now and then

It's a usual  saying that "past is past live in the present"...but does that  happen..I don't think  so...past is like a playing hide and seek one way or other  it will come in front of us with a weird smile.

Some times some things  or some places food dress even a breeze reminds us about our past..so how is it possible to  leave past and live in the present....its our situations and responsibilities  that lead us to live in the present...

The pop ups about the haunting past makes us strong   to walk forward  to lead a life ...but what if it makes u weaker day by day???

Past can never  be repeated...can just be remembered...If it's gives u pleasing  memories or horrible memories can just be remembered

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

What is the big deal in it???

From two days i was thinking about why cant we change the mindset of people...for each and everything people have problem..may be women commission or some or human rights people or our dear neighbors..

for eg: miss kerala contest happened on 5th august i cant imagine what all noutanki all these human tights people made..."its against culture..they are forcing gals to show their flesh" and what all bla blaas...what is the need for all these. all these contests are happening from long time and every time 1 day b4 the contest they will come up with something...all these are just publicity stunts.

dont know why these people has to do so much, no one is forcing anyone to do anything. every one is having their own wish. from birth they have the rite to think and do what the want. and i dont think Indian gals will go against their culture. what ever they do they will be having the feeling of being an Indian in their mind.


Another thing i noticed in issues against live in relations- i was going thru an article which my friend has wrote about live-in relations. its true that its a western culture, but now a days Indians also started admitting these culture. b4 and all when guy and gal fell in love they wanna get married and have happy happy married life, but now the whole scenario has changed now a days gals and boys are more focused on their carrier than a married life, they dont wanna be in any commitments. i feel they are not wrong in what they are doing after all what is there in a marriage - lot of commitments and i dont think todays youth are ready take it.

Bust i can understand its difficult for our oldies to accept it but very soon they will also think the same way. very soon we can see our people accepting all these.


We have our own culture but cant stick to it till death....there should be some changes to every thing...we cant accept everything but lil bit we can...



i thought ill write so much on these lot of things to write will continue in another post...

Monday, July 6, 2009

its a happy day for me....from 2 -3 days i was out of mind...negative energy was eating my head to the core, nothing good was happening with me..

but 2dy i got up as usual,but some changes was there...i was talking to evryione so nicely...happy happy mood....then lot of good news started coming in to my way.

but now am thinking like its we who are thinking about a bad day or a good day...if we get up with a smile on our face...and look into a mirror and say am gona have a gr8 day today , it will be a gr8 day...

but if we think like its a worse day that day will be gone...

so think 2dy is the best day in ur life and it will be the best day in ur life...

Monday, April 20, 2009

Why do we miss people ???



Most often when we message or talk to people whom we know we used to say " missing u soo much" Miss u " why do we say dat.

I feel its because we give so much of important to certain people who take s care of us...our life consists of certain people whom we consider as friends, family, soul mates and other too...

I don't if any one has called their parents and said i miss u soo much....
but for sure we used to say this to our friends and to boyfriend / girl friend...
why do we say that...is it because we ant live without them...or we have given so much of importance to them in our life...

When i used to say i miss u...i meant it coz that person must have influenced my life to the extreme...wont sacrifice him/her for anything...a person who is dat much important in my life... i feel thats why we miss people and say MISS YOU SO MUCH

Thursday, March 5, 2009

TRUST



"To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved"



When we start a relation- like new friend, or new boy friend or a partner in our life how much do we trust them.I know people who blindly believe others, if they start showing some kind of care or love towards other that's it, we will start trusting those people. May be the whole world say his negative character we wont believe WHY? only one reason because we trust them a lot.


What happens when this trust breaks on one morning, you wont be anywhere.you will feel the whole world is bad and we cant trust anyone. During that mental situation we wont be able to know who is with you and who is aganist you...


I think this is how the mind works...for each and every person.


How can we trust a person,

will it be a) the way they talks

b) character

c) simplicity

d) ....................................


Inspite of all this if our trust breaks then, what meaning can we give for the word TRUST.


Trust wont be there only tears will be there with us !!!


If we get a person in our life whom we can trust more than us....then you will be the luckiest person in the world...a person whom you think that he/she wont leave you and go at the middle you can trust him.


If you think some one can trust you blindly or if anyone has said like you are trustworthy, then you are some one precious.....

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

TRUST


"To be trusted is a greater compliment than being loved"










When we start a relation- like new friend, or new boy friend or a partner in our life how much do we trust them.I know people who blindly believe others, if they start showing some kind of care or love towards other that's it, we will start trusting those people. May be the whole world say his negative character we wont believe WHY? only one reason because we trust them a lot.


What happens when this trust breaks on one morning, you wont be anywhere.you will feel the whole world is bad and we cant trust anyone. During that mental situation we wont be able to know who is with you and who is aganist you...


I think this is how the mind works...for each and every person.


How can we trust a person,

will it be a) the way they talks

b) character

c) simplicity

d) ....................................


Inspite of all this if our trust breaks then, what meaning can we give for the word TRUST.


Trust wont be there only tears will be there with us !!!


If we get a person in our life whom we can trust more than us....then you will be the luckiest person in the world...a person whom you think that he/she wont leave you and go at the middle you can trust him.


If you think some one can trust you blindly or if anyone has said like you are trustworthy, then you are some one precious.....



Friday, January 16, 2009

"Having a good friend is a blessing..."

What you feel when you see this picture for the first time, You feel happy because you have good friends around u, or you will feel sad because till now you ddn't get a good friend.

I used to think always if we wont have friends how it will be- just think when we were small, when we joined our school from that time onwards we will get some one for us. When we are in nursery/ play school we want a friend to play with us, and when we little big we need a friend to tell secrets after that a friend to fight.....but when we are matured why we need friends.....what are they to us....??? Its a simple question. but answer is very hard. In short we can tell like- A friend is someone who will be with us when we are sad or when we are happy, he is a person who can change our tears to happy.

I have met lot of people in my life - in that i got few good friends, they are more than friends to me. After a period of time friends will become a part of our life .

Have you ever thought a life without at least one friend, how it will be. Believe me i tried it once when i got pissed off with a friend, that moment i made a decision like i wont keep any friend ill be happy in my life alone. But i was wrong what life long i couldn't stay more that one month. That time only i realized the value of friends.

Am so happy that i have good & trustable "coutable" friends around me with whom i can share my worries. More than anyone in the world. I think frienship is such a relation where we shouldnt think about anything else....Nothing in this world can be kept instead of frindship. I used to give my friends more value than anything other than family.

Even i used to feel like life partner should be like a friend then only our life will go smoothly. But people will say big big dialogue like this but once into a relation forgets everything. But in friendship no domination no partiality....so i think in this world if anything owrthy is good friends nothing else...

What you guys feel

If you ddnt get a good trustworthy friend till now, you havent lived your life.....you are al alone in your life...